Gaining Perception| Wifehood

As a child, I carried a rebel-like personality at times. Not to be rude but because I felt the need to question or test the boundaries. Children are full of questions and curiosity and those are aspects I’d like to keep on my belt but oh the tongue. That thing for me added more than needed whoopings to my childhood. Ha. Now We’re talking belts.

There’s a verse in the Good Book, 1 Corinthians 13:11, that states “When I was a child, I used to speak like a child, think like a child, reason like a child; when I became a man, I did away with childish things.” (NASB) This is my season of adulting and as a wife I learn through conversations with my husband traits of mine that I unconsciously have settled for. Let’s just say that nonverbal expressions speak loud on me. Due to that I may change the vibe around me.

Visual Aid,


I spy with my little eye something….. Grey. Our perceptions all differ and that,s beauty. “Water”. “Road on the left”. Mountains in the distances”. ” Rocks”. That’s beauty because all have a shade of truth.

Storytime: I walked as a child down a good ol’ rock road to my grandma’s house to get mustard, in DeKalb Mississippi, at age 3. My husband rode his bike to school, in Miami Gardens Florida at age 6.

Point of View: We have totally different views of a police officer. It’s respectfully discerning and the love we share allows us to respect, no only each others point of views but those around us in everyday life.

Don’t let perception cause barriers. Rather let it stiffen us with humbleness. Here’s a Widening(opening rather) View of a spot that my husband and I found. I just love the texture and color.


Challenge: Try learning a task you already know through the eyes of someone else. Youtube Time!

Published by Deanna J

Hi, I am a college student with many thought about what experiences I have on this journey to a degree and as a newlywed. I hope to brighten readers through my personal lens to what struggles, achievements, and obstacles I face as a student, wife, and Human in everyday life.

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